If you are still a grey member that means that your introduction was not complete. While a lot of people write an introduction, most forget that we have specific rules for writing introductions.
If your introduction does not follow our 5 rules, (title, content, picture, language, general rule) you will not be made a member. Usually, we help out by pointing out what needs to be fixed or reminding users to check the Introduction rules.
You should go reread the introduction rules, your introduction, and see if there are changes to be made.